Tuesday, April 22, 2025

Crusin 2025



 The cruise that we booked in December of 2023 for March of 2025 came and went. It seemed so far away when we booked it, yet now we did it, and it's a memory. 

We went with 13 families from West Hills Christian school. There were friends for everyone, and although  initially I was a bit nervous about the kids running off by themselves, I soon realized that they would never be alone. 

We flew down to Long Beach, California the night before the cruise ship was to leave. Everyone was so excited. We stayed that first night in a hotel near the cruise dock. 


As we made our way on the ship the next day, the excitement was electric, especially Caleb, who really couldn't believe we were entering and going to be living on such a big ship. 

The first few hours were chaotic as we found our rooms, unpacked and explored. Evelyn and I shared a small room with twin beds. John had a bunk room with the boys. Evelyn immediately unpacked me/us and organized all our cosmetics, lotions and gear. It looked like a dorm room. 

The first few days we were at sea. I honestly didn't see much of the kids, as they were off with friends. 

It really got exciting on our first stop of the trip: Puerto Vallarta. 



Our friend David, who organized the trip, rented a catamaran for the day. Five families spent the day cruising around the ocean, stopping to snorkel, swim to a beach and watch whales. We also had music and an open bar, so the party was lively and fun. 

    






 










Our boat broke down as we made our way back to the dock. We bobbed lazily in the ocean while a few of the crew completely dissected the bowels of the boat. Eventually they got it started and we were on our way back to the ship, most of us badly sunburned. 


The next day we docked at Matzalan. We spent the day on a beach, eating tacos and riding on banana boats.  The girls got their hair braided by the locals. There were a lot of people trying to sell us things, which was overwhelming at times. Evelyn had a fun time boogie boarding in the ocean, and the boys built sand castles with their friends. 







Later that evening, James told me his stomach hurt. I offered him some tums, thinking that perhaps it was something he ate on the beach that day. However, he refused, saying he thought he was going to throw up. Sitting at dinner, my friend noticed just in time that he was going to lose his lunch right there at dinner. We alerted John, who grabbed him and rushed him out of the restaurant. The next 36 hours James proceeded to lay in bed, throwing up everything he had..and then some. 

The next day we were in Cabo and because James was still sick, I took the other three kids off the boat by myself. I negotiated a boat to take us to see the rock formations in Cabo and then we walked around in town. It was very hot that day; we eventually found a place to rest and drink a smoothie before heading back on the boat. 



 





That night Levi got sick, and he was the one throwing up -from both ends- for the net 24 hours. Poor John was on call at dinner, running back to the room to attend to his urgent pleas for help. 

Our final day was spent at sea, and about mid way through the day, Caleb fell ill. Thus, all three boys spent the remainder of the trip in the dark room watching movies. On Saturday, James and Levi were feeling better, however Caleb was in sorry shape. He had to navigate the endless lines with a suitcase with crowds of people. He was miserable, but we had to encourage him to keep truckin forward.

We had several hour in Long Beach before our flight home, so John rented a mini van and we just drove around the costal towns so Caleb could lay sick in the van. 



We eventually boarded our flight, which ended up being a connection through Sonoma. But we made it home. 

About a day later, both John and myself got terribly sick. We spent the entire week just feeling bad. I'm pretty sure we had Covid or the flu. Who knows, but Caleb ended up going to the doctor and had pneumonia. 

On top of that our master bathroom toilet overflowed and went through the ceiling of our kitchen. We had people tearing up flooring and blowers working 24/7.

Our newly remodeled bathroom is now out of commission. The beautiful tiles were torn up.  It's been a tough few weeks back. The only things that keeps it a bit upbeat is the wonderful spring weather. 

Evelyn took it upon herself to design and plant a little garden in our front yard. Grandpa was more than happy to assist. 


She has also been busy with track, running the longer races of 1500 and 800 and some relays. 





She is also involved in the school play, Madagascar. Admittedly she is doing it for the social piece...but I actually think she is enjoying it a lot. She has a minor part of an old lady and a baboon. ;) Practices start ramping up this coming week..and I've been designated as the "food mom" who is going to bring meals in to 60 kids before their after school practices. 

The boys have been gearing up for baseball with some long practices and a scrimmage game. They are also doing a spring soccer team. They just keep on going! Keeping them active and busy is really good for them. 

And then there is my house. Trying to keep a somewhat positive attitude but.........😑

Oh, and one more important life event that is definitely worth noting.........ta da! John and I celebrated 20 years of marriage on April 9. 

We commemorated by driving boys to baseball practice, going out to eat, and a set of glorious diamond earrings. 💎

BUT we are planning a big trip in a few weeks.



20 years went by in a flash. 
But I'd say we have a lot to show for it. 











Tuesday, March 4, 2025

Quick Winter Snapshot


It's March and the winter was no big deal this year. 

We had more sunny blue skies than I can ever remember. 

Perhaps this has something to do with global warming! ..I'll take it!

We started off the month of January getting back into the swing of things in school. The boys were really enthusiastic about a STEAM bridge project. They selected some bridges to study around Portland. The teacher in me wanted them to actually see the bridges first hand, so I took them on a special bridge excursion. 

 

The Tillikum Crossing pedestrian bride 


Quick stop at Bonneville Dam to see Herman the Sturgeon at the fish hatchery

"The Bridge of the Gods" in Cascade Locks



Basketball games and practices filled many of our afternoons and weekends. Evelyn played basketball for the first time. Everyone was truly surprised it was her first season. All her aggression and strong will pays off!



John coached the boys' team again. They had a very successful season, struggling a bit in the end, as they were placed in a higher bracket for the playoffs. 

The most exciting game happened in the first playoff game when they played a team and went into overtime. The game was won in the final 3 seconds when Jack made a 3 point shot as the buzzer went off. 
A DQ celebration was earned. 



 

I also learned that chess is considered a sport. Caleb wanted to join the chess team, so with a little carpooling and life juggling to make it all work, he was able to compete in his first ever tournament. 
Sitting at this tournament introduced me to a whole new world. I am trying to learn this game but I am still so overwhelmed and confused by the strategies and rules. It is like a foreign language. However, I want to support Caleb in this, so I will sit, confused all day at a tournament.





The second weekend in February brought the "Daddy-Daughter Dance," a beloved tradition at the school. The theme this year was "candy land," thus Evelyn had to get a dress to match it. Her rainbow dress proved to be a hit. 




The dance fell on the boys' 11th birthday. However, that didn't stop me from making sure they got a proper celebration which included a haircut, dinner at Panda Express and Crumbl Cookie. 


Perhaps the best birthday gift was the snow that fell later that week. 

It last a mere 48 hours, but the kids took advantage of every single second of it!


 




before it was all gone...



Valentine's Day was spent on a fun double date down town at a comedy show and dinner. 


 


Evelyn and I also hosted a "Galentines Day" party for the 7th grade girls. We had a pasta dinner and played some fun games. Evelyn was very intentional on how she set up and organized the space. She wrote out cards for each girl at the party. 





The first weekend in March our dear friends from Ohio came into town for a visit.  We went to a Timbers game.
The weekend was filled with food, fellowship and fun. 



There is so much that happens in the day to day, but a few small snapshots hopefully highlighted some of the big events. 
Onward to SPRING!!!

































Tuesday, January 21, 2025

Christmas time 2024

 It is quiet and sunny. This has been the sunniest, most blue skied January that I can remember. Every day is just beautiful and bright!  

Evelyn was happy to return to school and get back to the social scene. Christmas break ushered in her teenage years as she turned 13 on Dec. 27. 

We spoiled her big time this year, and she had a big party at the nail salon. 15 girls in the salon made for quite the party, and then the outdoor mall was taken over by teen girls. It was perfect. 




Afterwards I took her and another friend to get their ears pierced. Two other girls wanted to join the experience too, so it was a crazy ride over to Clackamas mall where we found the piercing parlor. Originally, Evelyn's friend's mom made appointments for the girls at a nice place downtown, but at the last minute, the piercer got sick so we were scrambled to find another place that had openings. 

When we pulled up to the mall, the police were securing a large section with caution tape. Apparently, 30 minutes before we arrived there was a shooting in the parking lot. At first I was hesitant to park and get out of the car, but the mall was bustling and Evelyn had been waiting 13 long years for this day. So, I walked up to the cop on sight and asked if it was safe to go in the mall. His reply was that it was never more safe now that all of Clackamas county law enforcement were on the premises. 

Well, that calmed any worries I had and I trekked through the mall with the four girls to find a piercing place. After a short wait, the girls huddled together in the room, nervous and excited at the same time. 

I'm glad they all had each other for support. The anxiety and fear in the room was palatable. 

Alas, they found the courage and ears were pierced. This was a big milestone for Evelyn. She has wanted her ears pierced for a very long time and the agreement has always been when she turned 13. 

I think it was important for me to have her wait because it was a "coming of age" privilege that  are far and few. We live in a culture with instant gratification as the norm and having to wait and anticipate this privilege made it all the more special. 
We have a teen. 


We celebrated our family Christmas exchange around our tree the night before we left for Chicago. The kids get more excited about giving the gifts they buy for each other than receiving them. Watching them give gifts to each other is my favorite part about Christmas. 

Evelyn spoiled them this year with new Nike shoes. 

We flew to Chicago for a few days for Christmas. It was cold but not terrible this year. It didn't snow and it wasn't below zero. 

We walked around good ol' Warrenville's light display.
Caleb discovered my old game of Mouse Trap in the depths of Grandma and Grandpas' closet

One of the great Christmas thrills was seeing a herd of these guys run through my parent's backyard on Christmas morning. 











Grandma, Evelyn, Caleb and I went skating at an indoor skating rink.
We even participated in the skating race. 





As always, our trip to Chicago is full of family and get togethers. We gathered at my Aunt Penny's house for Christmas and then two days later at my parent's home for Evelyn's birthday.


 


Another fun memory is Grandpa taking the boys swimming at their gym's the pool. On the way home he got them king sized slurpees and hot dogs. They thought that was the best day ever. 


The boys in their bed at grandma and grandpa's.


Since Christmas break ended, our days have been full of getting back into the routines of school and playing basketball. The boys played in a 5th/6th grade team at West Hills before Christmas and they once again were undefeated. Their final game against the French International school was quite the match up. But the boys pulled through and clenched the number 1 title again. 

It's difficult to recap everything that has taken place in the last two months so I'm just going to dump some photos and hope that this captures the joy and craziness of the season. 






Hats: Unable to get cash for his broken fishing pole, Caleb decides to purchase hats with his gift card and sell them in the neighborhood, thus receiving his cash he wanted. 

Our Christmas tree this year was the most beautiful one we ever had. We found it at a family Christmas tree farm for much less than the ones near us...however, we cut down the wrong type of tree, hence paying just as much.....😦



Gotta love the alpine glow.....


Always fun to decorate.....not fun taking it all down.....

It was Levi's turn to put the star on top. 





The boys did their Christmas show at school. Caleb got the part as "a nerd."
 He had a little solo and really hammed it up! I have a feeling this is just the beginning for Caleb......