Tuesday, March 4, 2025

Quick Winter Snapshot


It's March and the winter was no big deal this year. 

We had more sunny blue skies than I can ever remember. 

Perhaps this has something to do with global warming! ..I'll take it!

We started off the month of January getting back into the swing of things in school. The boys were really enthusiastic about a STEAM bridge project. They selected some bridges to study around Portland. The teacher in me wanted them to actually see the bridges first hand, so I took them on a special bridge excursion. 

 

The Tillikum Crossing pedestrian bride 


Quick stop at Bonneville Dam to see Herman the Sturgeon at the fish hatchery

"The Bridge of the Gods" in Cascade Locks



Basketball games and practices filled many of our afternoons and weekends. Evelyn played basketball for the first time. Everyone was truly surprised it was her first season. All her aggression and strong will pays off!



John coached the boys' team again. They had a very successful season, struggling a bit in the end, as they were placed in a higher bracket for the playoffs. 

The most exciting game happened in the first playoff game when they played a team and went into overtime. The game was won in the final 3 seconds when Jack made a 3 point shot as the buzzer went off. 
A DQ celebration was earned. 



 

I also learned that chess is considered a sport. Caleb wanted to join the chess team, so with a little carpooling and life juggling to make it all work, he was able to compete in his first ever tournament. 
Sitting at this tournament introduced me to a whole new world. I am trying to learn this game but I am still so overwhelmed and confused by the strategies and rules. It is like a foreign language. However, I want to support Caleb in this, so I will sit, confused all day at a tournament.





The second weekend in February brought the "Daddy-Daughter Dance," a beloved tradition at the school. The theme this year was "candy land," thus Evelyn had to get a dress to match it. Her rainbow dress proved to be a hit. 




The dance fell on the boys' 11th birthday. However, that didn't stop me from making sure they got a proper celebration which included a haircut, dinner at Panda Express and Crumbl Cookie. 


Perhaps the best birthday gift was the snow that fell later that week. 

It last a mere 48 hours, but the kids took advantage of every single second of it!


 




before it was all gone...



Valentine's Day was spent on a fun double date down town at a comedy show and dinner. 


 


Evelyn and I also hosted a "Galentines Day" party for the 7th grade girls. We had a pasta dinner and played some fun games. Evelyn was very intentional on how she set up and organized the space. She wrote out cards for each girl at the party. 





The first weekend in March our dear friends from Ohio came into town for a visit.  We went to a Timbers game.
The weekend was filled with food, fellowship and fun. 



There is so much that happens in the day to day, but a few small snapshots hopefully highlighted some of the big events. 
Onward to SPRING!!!

































Tuesday, January 21, 2025

Christmas time 2024

 It is quiet and sunny. This has been the sunniest, most blue skied January that I can remember. Every day is just beautiful and bright!  

Evelyn was happy to return to school and get back to the social scene. Christmas break ushered in her teenage years as she turned 13 on Dec. 27. 

We spoiled her big time this year, and she had a big party at the nail salon. 15 girls in the salon made for quite the party, and then the outdoor mall was taken over by teen girls. It was perfect. 




Afterwards I took her and another friend to get their ears pierced. Two other girls wanted to join the experience too, so it was a crazy ride over to Clackamas mall where we found the piercing parlor. Originally, Evelyn's friend's mom made appointments for the girls at a nice place downtown, but at the last minute, the piercer got sick so we were scrambled to find another place that had openings. 

When we pulled up to the mall, the police were securing a large section with caution tape. Apparently, 30 minutes before we arrived there was a shooting in the parking lot. At first I was hesitant to park and get out of the car, but the mall was bustling and Evelyn had been waiting 13 long years for this day. So, I walked up to the cop on sight and asked if it was safe to go in the mall. His reply was that it was never more safe now that all of Clackamas county law enforcement were on the premises. 

Well, that calmed any worries I had and I trekked through the mall with the four girls to find a piercing place. After a short wait, the girls huddled together in the room, nervous and excited at the same time. 

I'm glad they all had each other for support. The anxiety and fear in the room was palatable. 

Alas, they found the courage and ears were pierced. This was a big milestone for Evelyn. She has wanted her ears pierced for a very long time and the agreement has always been when she turned 13. 

I think it was important for me to have her wait because it was a "coming of age" privilege that  are far and few. We live in a culture with instant gratification as the norm and having to wait and anticipate this privilege made it all the more special. 
We have a teen. 


We celebrated our family Christmas exchange around our tree the night before we left for Chicago. The kids get more excited about giving the gifts they buy for each other than receiving them. Watching them give gifts to each other is my favorite part about Christmas. 

Evelyn spoiled them this year with new Nike shoes. 

We flew to Chicago for a few days for Christmas. It was cold but not terrible this year. It didn't snow and it wasn't below zero. 

We walked around good ol' Warrenville's light display.
Caleb discovered my old game of Mouse Trap in the depths of Grandma and Grandpas' closet

One of the great Christmas thrills was seeing a herd of these guys run through my parent's backyard on Christmas morning. 











Grandma, Evelyn, Caleb and I went skating at an indoor skating rink.
We even participated in the skating race. 





As always, our trip to Chicago is full of family and get togethers. We gathered at my Aunt Penny's house for Christmas and then two days later at my parent's home for Evelyn's birthday.


 


Another fun memory is Grandpa taking the boys swimming at their gym's the pool. On the way home he got them king sized slurpees and hot dogs. They thought that was the best day ever. 


The boys in their bed at grandma and grandpa's.


Since Christmas break ended, our days have been full of getting back into the routines of school and playing basketball. The boys played in a 5th/6th grade team at West Hills before Christmas and they once again were undefeated. Their final game against the French International school was quite the match up. But the boys pulled through and clenched the number 1 title again. 

It's difficult to recap everything that has taken place in the last two months so I'm just going to dump some photos and hope that this captures the joy and craziness of the season. 






Hats: Unable to get cash for his broken fishing pole, Caleb decides to purchase hats with his gift card and sell them in the neighborhood, thus receiving his cash he wanted. 

Our Christmas tree this year was the most beautiful one we ever had. We found it at a family Christmas tree farm for much less than the ones near us...however, we cut down the wrong type of tree, hence paying just as much.....😦



Gotta love the alpine glow.....


Always fun to decorate.....not fun taking it all down.....

It was Levi's turn to put the star on top. 





The boys did their Christmas show at school. Caleb got the part as "a nerd."
 He had a little solo and really hammed it up! I have a feeling this is just the beginning for Caleb......





Thursday, November 14, 2024

Fall 2024 recap

 It occurred to me that I am way past due for a fall post. As cliche as it sounds, the fall has flown by at an alarmingly fast pace. With the holidays around the corner and my calendar filling up, I determined that I needed to make time to post some fall photos before all the holiday craziness starts. So, I will start from the beginning of September...back to when we landed at PDX from London and began the new school year.....so here we go!

A new school year, a new season. We have three 5th graders in the house .....


And a 7th graders...almost teen....😳
The school year started out with Evelyn going to the middle school social. She and her friend got all glammed up and had a fun night. Evelyn was truly happy to be back at school and in the social scene. 
James, on the other hand, lamented the fact that the "dog days of summer" were coming to an end. Lazy mornings snuggling with Lucy would have to be cut short. 
The first weekend back at school we drove up to Seattle and spent time with Rob, Melissa, Cady and Geneva. John's parents came too. This is our second year seeing a Mariners game together.
The boys especially are into MLB this year. They continually impress me with their knowledge of players and stats. 
It was thrilling to sit in the stands and eat a real ballpark hotdog. 


The school year started out with a big, messy project. The boys had to make models of different biomes, which they were very enthusiastic about working on. Before I even knew what was going on, they had totally transformed the dining room table into their work station, pouring sticky resin for replicas of rivers and hot glue to adhere rocks and model trees and grass to baseboards. 
The table quickly became a hazard area, and I stayed back watching resin and glue cover my entire table. Their models came out beautifully; I comforted myself and my ruined table situation by resolving that "I took one for the team" in the name of helping my boys get an "A." However, my hopes and ambitions came crashing down when their projects, albeit aesthetically stunning, failed to meet the criteria required (which included various labels and research) 😛
Ugh!.... the realization that my table was destroyed for "not an A" made me rather discouraged. 

In other news, Lucy is still stealing food off every countertop, table and unmanned surface. Here is a picture of one chicken burrito after there were two a moment ago....
Other highjacked food so far this fall has included a cheeseburger, peanut butter and banana toast, cinnamon French toast and half a pumpkin pie. 


One of the great things about West Hills is the focus on community. One way they try to build community with the middle school is through a day retreat at Eagle Rock. This year I volunteered for the day. I drove our 12 passenger van to the camp and observed all the social commentaries and interactions throughout the day. Needless to say, it was very enlightening....and it made me grateful I wasn't in 7th grade anymore. 


Another special event that took place this fall was West Hill's 75th anniversary auction dinner. It's nice to have an occasion to dress up fancy and eat fancy food.  
To honor the 75 years, a big community event was held the next day. The weather couldn't have been more perfect. There were food trucks, games, photos from decades gone by.... It was so wonderful to fellowship and enjoy the West Hills community. My heart was full after that weekend. 
Soccer season didn't disappoint again this year. Not only was the weather beautiful, but John coached the undefeated boys team again, "The Carolina Reapers." 

John is such a great coach. He has such a great balance of instruction and encouragement for the boys. The sideline was once again so much fun with parents and friends from our school and neighborhood community. 
Evelyn also dominated on the soccer field once again. 
She played with the same coach and team as last year. 



October also brought a visit from my parents who stayed with us for ten days to watch some soccer games and take the kids to the pumpkin patch. 
I really appreciate that they supervise and take on all the carving and gutting of the pumpkins. 
Unbeknownst to me, I directed them to the most crowded pumpkin patch on the most crowded day.😮😑

 The pumpkin patch experience was not ideal. 
The "free admission" really drew in the crowds; however, the price of actually purchasing a pumpkin were less than ideal.
I was glad  that my parents wisely decided to take the pumpkin purchasing to Bargain Market. 

 Our pumpkins this year, however, didn't last more than a few days.. 

I'm still not sure why they molded and collapsed so quickly. 
My friend suggested that, "You get what you pay for." 
Maybe. 😌
Did I mention that our fall was magnificent?! 😃
Well, it was.





Evelyn and I went with our "Courageous Girls" group to see Anne of Green Gables at the Hillsboro theatre. It was a little bit of a drive, but I'm glad to get any intentional time I can with my kids these days. 
It was a nice "mother-daughter" show. 

Another fun adventure we had was Chantelle mushroom hunting. Deep in the enchanted woods in Vernonia are hidden hundreds of golden fungi. 
However, I couldn't tell you how to get there. Our friends, the Austins, know the place and the path...and the backroads get a little muddy. 




This year my kids were less excited about the dressing up part of Halloween and more focused on the candy collection. Evelyn went around our neighborhood with her friend (who she's known from preschool!) Sophie. They dressed up as Barbie dolls. I was very proud  that we put together her costume from a thrift store rather than buying it off Amazon.
 
The boys were so simple this year. 
Caleb wore a cape.
 Levi wore a lighted mask. 
And James threw on a soccer jersey decided on a few minutes before heading out the door.  They reached the bare minimum requirement when it came to what was needed to collect their candy.
Halloween night was cold and rainy. I don't remember a Halloween like this since they were toddlers. Luckily, they were old enough to not need us to follow after them; so, we spent most of the night in the house with our friends. They came back with so much candy. Many of the wrappers (the peanut mms in particular) disintegrated  in the pillow cases because of the rain. 
I don't even think they are that interested in actually eating the candy as they were in previous years; they mostly just wanted to out do each other with the amount. 
The election was a big deal this year. I was pleased to see that the signs around our neighborhood were sparse. I do not like the division elections create in communities, and putting signs in front of houses only stirs up unfriendly feelings. The kids were really interested in the elections and the political talk they overheard John and me discussing. 

The day after the election, Evelyn and I took the paddle boards out one more time on the river. The colors of the leaves were magical, and the river was serene and peaceful. 

Paddle boarding has really become a favorite pastime of mine. 


This year for Veterans Day (and our half day of school), I took my kids out of class and did a "mom camp" trip. I took them to Fort Vancouver in Washington and we learned all about the beginnings of the Hudson Bay Company. 
It was a nice day. We walked around and toured the fort, had a picnic lunch and learned so much!
The boys took detailed notes. 

Afterwards we went to the Pearson Air Museum next door and saw some great airplanes from times gone by. 
And no "mom camp" day is complete without an ice cream stop before heading home. 
I savor these intentional days with my kids more and more. I love creating opportunities for learning together through unique experiences. I feel so blessed to be able to do this. 

Two weekends in a row had me dedicating a few hours to Evelyn's desired beauty regiments. Nails, highlights, deep conditioning treatments and hair styling took up lots of time and her money; they also became teachable moments for Evelyn that high maintenance is expensive and time consuming.
 The highlights alone took over 3 hours. 
I'm not sure she will do it again. I know what people mean now when they say "girls are more expensive than boys..."
Evelyn may be blossoming into a beauty, but her heart is also wonderfully gorgeous (if I may brag on her a little) On the Monday of Veterans Day, she spent the morning baking cookies and writing individual personal notes of gratitude to the Tualatin police and fire department. 


We then delivered them, thanking them for their service to our community. 

Life may be busy with so many good activities, but the best moments are the ones in between. I love walking on our path by the river....
Or watching the kids bond with their classmates and friends at a basketball game.....
Or just reading quietly by the fire. 
And then of course there's Mr. Bearded Dragon, who I'm starting to really grow in affection for....I know, I can't believe it. Between the humans in this home, the critters and creatures, many hours of my day are dedicated to fixing food and creating an environment so that they can live their best lives. 
But ensuring their best life allows me to live my best life, which  is right now. 
It really is. I couldn't be happier with my full house and my full days. 💜